After my first relationship ended, I found myself returning to the spiritual practices and research I had set aside during my time with my ex. At just 19 years old, I had already experienced more than I ever imagined in a brief nine-month union—physical and emotional abuse, cohabitation, an unexpected pregnancy followed by a miscarriage, and the heart-wrenching betrayal of infidelity with my best friend. These experiences left me feeling stripped to the bone, desperately needing to find my way back to myself.
During this period of rediscovery, I stumbled upon a lecture by a spiritual teacher who had become quite well-known for her other noble efforts. Something she said struck a chord with me: when a man and a woman engage in sexual intercourse, the woman’s energy lingers in the man’s system for about a month. However, the woman, as the receiver of his body, carries his energy within her for up to a year after the encounter.
This idea intrigued me deeply. I had long believed that we possess an energetic body alongside our physical one, and though my experience with sex was limited at the time, I couldn’t help but feel that there was a profound truth to what she said. The intense pull I felt toward my partner during our intimate moments seemed to go beyond just flesh and bones—it felt like an energetic connection, a merging of our spirits.
The Spiritual Consequences of Irresponsible Sexual Behavior
Sex is often seen as a purely physical act, but what if it’s much more than that? What if every sexual encounter involves an exchange of energy that leaves an imprint on both partners, long after the physical connection has ended?
Consider the idea that men, as projectors, release their energy during sex, while women, as receivers, absorb this energy. This concept suggests that every time a man sleeps with a woman, he loses a piece of his strength, whereas the woman takes in a part of his spirit. This exchange isn’t just physical; it’s deeply spiritual and can lead to profound, lasting effects on both individuals.
For women, this means that every sexual partner leaves a spiritual imprint, a piece of themselves that remains intertwined with her spirit. Have you ever noticed how after a casual fling, you start adopting some of your partner’s interests, even if they weren’t appealing to you before? Or how you can’t seem to get someone off your mind, even when you didn’t think much of them initially? This might be the result of spiritual attachment, where the energies of past lovers linger within, influencing your thoughts, feelings, and even behaviors.
For men, the impact is just as significant. Every time a man engages in sex without a true emotional investment, he gives away a piece of his spirit, leaving him feeling depleted. This energy loss can accumulate over time, leading to a sense of emptiness and a relentless search for fulfillment that can never truly be satisfied by physical encounters alone.
Understanding Sexual Energy: More Than Just Physical Attraction
Sexual energy isn’t just about physical desire; it’s a powerful force that intertwines the energies of both partners. Dr. Po-Chang Hsu explains that during sexual intercourse, the energy of each partner mixes, raising or lowering their energy levels. This exchange of energy means that sex is not just a mechanical act, but an energetic one that affects both individuals on a deeper level.
Clinical psychologist Carla Manly adds that, much like how we can be affected by someone’s positive mood or toxic energy, we can also be impacted by the energy exchanged during sex. This concept, while not extensively researched, is widely recognized in the fields of relationship and sexual therapy. The idea is that human interactions, especially intimate ones, have a profound impact on our psyche and can leave an “emotional residue” that lingers long after the encounter.
Researchers from Stanford University have found that our environment, including the people we surround ourselves with, plays a significant role in regulating our emotions. This extends to our sexual experiences as well—your partner’s mood or energy can significantly influence how you feel during and after the encounter.
The Importance of Self-Awareness in Sexual Relationships
So, should we be more cautious about who we choose to be intimate with? While there’s no need to overanalyze every potential partner, developing a heightened sense of self-awareness and understanding your own sexual energy can be incredibly beneficial.
Sex and relationship therapist Lena Elkhatib emphasizes the importance of being in touch with your intentions before engaging in sexual activity. By practicing mindfulness and being attuned to your body, emotions, and energy, you can make more informed choices about who you share your energy with.
Listening to your body and honoring its signals is crucial. If something doesn’t feel right—if there’s a pit in your stomach or a sense of unease—it’s worth paying attention to those feelings. This level of self-awareness can help you align your sexual energy with partners who truly resonate with you, leading to more fulfilling and meaningful experiences.
The Bottom Line: What Do You Want Out of Your Sexual Experiences?
Ultimately, the key to a healthy and satisfying sex life lies in understanding what you want out of your sexual experiences. Whether you prefer casual flings, deep emotional connections, or something in between, it’s important to approach sex with a clear sense of self-awareness and intention.
By tuning into your body’s signals and being mindful of the energy you exchange with others, you can create a more aligned and fulfilling sexual experience. Remember, sex is a powerful force that can shape our emotions, our relationships, and even our sense of self. So, before you hop into bed with someone, ask yourself: “What do I really want out of this experience, and how does it align with my energy?”
By doing so, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the complexities of sexual relationships and ensure that every encounter leaves you feeling empowered, whole, and in tune with your true self.
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Audrey Childers is a 10x published author, blogger, freelance journalist and an entrepreneur with over a decade of experience in research and editorial writing. She is also the creator and founder of the website the hypothyroidismchick.com. Where you can find great tips on everyday living with hypothyroidism. She enjoys raising her children and being a voice for optimal human health and wellness. She is the published author of : A survivors cookbook guide to kicking hypothyroidism booty, Reset your Thyroid, The Ultimate guide to healing hypothyroidism and A survivors cookbook guide to kicking hypothyroidism booty: the slow cooker way. You can find all these books on Amazon. This blog may be re-posted freely with proper attribution, author bio, and this copyright statement.
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