Life Is Messy, But So Am I
Life has a way of throwing curveballs that no one warns you about. I’m not here to ask for sympathy—I’ve faced my share of challenges, but I’ve also found strength, resilience, and humor along the way. My story isn’t just about hardship; it’s about navigating a chaotic world and coming out stronger on the other side.
Growing up without knowing who my father was, surviving a revolving door of stepfathers, and navigating a childhood that was more about survival than innocence shaped me into the person I am today. This is my story—a mix of raw truth, lessons learned, and a touch of humor to keep things light.
A Fatherless Beginning
My mother was married four times, and none of those men were my father. Who was he? That’s still a mystery. My mother offered up a few names—one man was quick to deny any involvement, and another, John Moore, was supposedly stationed at Fort Bragg around the time of my birth in 1972.
Did it hurt not knowing my father? Of course. But in a way, it fueled my independence and taught me to rely on myself. Life doesn’t wait for you to figure things out—it just keeps going.
The Chaos of Home Life
The men in my mother’s life came and went, and none of them brought stability or support. Looking back, I consider myself lucky to have avoided the kinds of abuse that so many others in similar situations have endured. Maybe it was my strong personality that kept me safe.
I had a knack for speaking my mind, and I wasn’t afraid to stand up for myself, even as a child. When a man in our home crossed a line or made me uncomfortable, I wasn’t shy about calling him out. Sure, it got me slapped in the face by my mother when these men complained about my attitude, but I was protecting myself.
Was it a guardian angel or just pure survival instinct? I don’t know, but something in me always knew when to fight back.
School: A Place of Refuge and Judgment
School wasn’t about academics for me—it was about escaping the chaos of home. But even there, I faced challenges. My clothes were dirty, I worried about how I smelled, and my empty stomach made it hard to focus.
Kids can be cruel, and their comments about my appearance stung. But I found solace in friendships that have lasted a lifetime. Denise, my best friend since kindergarten, was one of those rare, irreplaceable people. She passed away from kidney failure, and there’s a part of my heart that will always be missing because of her absence.
Why Share This Story?
Because someone out there might need to hear it. Life isn’t perfect, and none of us are, either. But our struggles don’t define us—how we face them does.
A.L. Childers: Books to Inspire and Empower
If my story resonates with you, my books might, too. They’re written to empower, guide, and inspire anyone navigating life’s challenges, whether they’re dealing with health struggles or seeking purpose.
- “Hashimoto’s Crock-Pot Recipes: How I Put My Hashimoto’s Into Remission”
- “Reset Your Thyroid: 21-Day Meal Plan to Reset Your Thyroid”
- “A Women’s Holistic Holy Grail Handbook for Hypothyroidism and Hashimoto’s”
Find them on Amazon by searching for A.L. Childers.
Blogging About Life and Resilience
Visit my blog at TheHypothyroidismChick.com for more stories, insights, and resources. Life may not be perfect, but sharing our experiences makes it a little easier to navigate.
A.L. Childers
Published Author, Advocate, and Your Partner in Thyroid Health
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